You’re not failing, you’re just learning

There are 4 important stages in learning new skills that we all must go through. Failure to understand (or know about) these steps often leads to unnecessary feelings of shame and lower self-esteem. In some cases, it can lead to people abandoning the learning process, with thoughts that they are stupid or poorly skilled. But […]

Welcoming Symptoms

(by Robert Schwarz, PsyD, DCEP) When anxiety, sadness or anger present themselves to you or your clients do you welcome them? What about other “symptoms”? Do you invite them to speak to you? Do you listen to their concerns and issues? Or do you or clients react to them with fear and loathing? Are they […]

Ready, Willing and Able?

(by Ann Adams, EFT Master Trainer) Roshane lost trust in his practitioner and stopped sessions. He indicated that the practitioner may have attempted to do “too much too fast” or “was pushing his own agenda” when he wanted more time to process and was uncomfortable with the way the practitioner “pushed” him for finding a […]